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Have you ever been in a conversation with some-one and the topic of religion or faith comes up? Maybe you’re sitting on a bus and a stranger is talking to you and says something like, “I’m just not all that sure about this whole God thing.” Or maybe a family member at Thanksgiving starts asking questions about why you are so involved in church and wondering why it is so important to you. Or have you ever been in a crowded area and overheard the person next to you say something about how they just don’t seem to understand those Christians?
For many, this can be a really intimidating topic of conversation. If you haven’t been in any of those scenarios laid out, what was your reaction like picturing yourself in any of those circumstances? Were you nervous? Uncertain? Scared? Hesitant? For many of us, the topic of sharing our faith can be one that can be pretty intimidating. We can create our own barriers and justifying reasons for why we feel this way to varying degrees. We can think of some seemingly really good reasons to avoid doing it altogether. We can think, “Well, I don’t want to say the wrong thing,” or “I’m sure someone else will help them with that question,” or “I don’t have the time to get into this with them,” or “I don’t want to start an argument.” We can use all these rationales and more to create this sense that talking faith and religion in society is somehow taboo and yet the questions are there, the uncertainties are valid, they are out there in the open seeking an answer. Each and every believer can be tempted, at times, to see witnessing or sharing our faith as fitting into a How-To Manual. That there is a one-stop, fool-proof way to share the Gospel and it takes a certain level of knowledge, training, age, ability, or experience to make sure it’s done correctly. As we look this week at what it looks like to share our faith, God wants to set us free from all of these misconceptions. He wants to invite us to see sharing what we believe with others as an exciting part of being His child. He invites us to show and share the love that He has for us so that others might experience His love too. He gives us opportunities to do more that talk about it, but to live it. Sharing one’s faith goes way beyond just saying the right thing, but it is also modeling what you believe by living. It is in this that others will see the God who is longing for relationship with them too. Consider the words of the Apostle John in 1 John 3:18 where he writes: “Dear children, let us not [only] love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” God invites each of us to view sharing our faith not as something to fear, but an experience to enjoy as He gives us these opportunities to talk about Him and the love that He has for each person. By simply living, you and I can be walking, talking billboards for the Savior. So, let us not just use words and logic, but let’s love others and share life with those who need to experience the saving power of the Gospel. And the best part about living this out is that we don’t do it alone. We have the support of other believers and we ultimately have the Holy Spirit prompting us and filling us with what is needed for each moment and for each encounter. May you find encouragement in living for the King! Pastor Ben
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How strong is your grip? How firm is your hand-shake? If you were to ever meet Rich Williams, who goes by the nickname “Big Rich,” you might want to settle for a friendly wave instead of offering your digits. Williams is renowned for his immeasurable hand strength and teddy-bear composure. This gentle giant stands at 6’3” and weighs 415 lbs. He has 23” biceps, 33” thighs, a 23” neck, and a 66” chest. He spends his days on staff at an elementary school in Columbia, South Carolina, where he regularly performs feats of strength for the eager kids who chant his name. From tearing phone books in half, to squeezing full soda cans until they explode, and rolling up frying pans like a burrito, Williams’ grip is legendary.
In a not-so-similar way, but related to grip strength, I can very vividly remember the first time that I had my handshake “corrected” for improper grip. I was 12 years old and was exiting the church service at my home church. I was eager to scoot through the line waiting to shake the speaker’s hand to join my friends in the fellowship hall. The speaker this Sunday was one of the elders in our congregation and a great family friend. As I hurriedly made my way past him, I half-heartedly stuck out my hand. What I thought would be a brief exchange turned into something much more meaningful. I felt his grip tighten and almost pull me back so that I was face-to-face with him. In a gentle, teaching way, he offered to me this suggestion. “When you shake someone’s hand, let them know that you mean it.” We then proceeded to re-do our handshake exchange with me applying the proper and respectful force, grip, and eye contact. To this day, whenever I shake someone’s hand I remember this lesson and am thankful for the time taken by this individual to show me something that far outweighed hand strength or grip. We can easily look at these two accounts above and either marvel at the strength of a grip like Rich Williams or laugh at the ignorance shown by an adolescent lad, but what does something like a tight grip have to do with giving? The same question could be asked about how we view the resources that God has given each of us: our time, our energy, our talents, our money. How tight is your grip to those things? Whose are they? Who are they for? One of the ways that you and I can struggle in this area is in viewing these gifts that God has given us as being meant only for us – our enjoyment, our pleasure. We can be tempted to hoard these gifts, to not use them, to keep them under wraps or for ourselves, but God desires that we see the bigger picture in those things that He gives to us. Scripture’s tone and call on this aspect of giving is simply this: God has given so that we can give. There is a blessing designed and intended for the giver. We obviously see the blessing in receiving, but many of us have also felt that when we give too. So, how tight is your grip on the gifts and resources that God has given you and made you steward and manager of? Who in your life and world could benefit from you sharing those? It is when we loosen our grip and let go that we see God’s provision in our own life and the true life that He intends us to experience. In the Apostle Paul’s first letter to young pastor Timothy, he writes these words:
May each of us continue to learn and be shaped by God’s grace to us as we give what He first gave to us. Pastor Ben  How strong is your grip? How firm is your hand-shake? If you were to ever meet Rich Williams, who goes by the nickname “Big Rich,” you might want to settle for a friendly wave instead of offering your digits. Williams is renowned for his immeasurable hand strength and teddy-bear composure. This gentle giant stands at 6’3” and weighs 415lbs. He has 23” biceps, 33” thighs, a 23” neck, and a 66” chest. He spends his days on staff at an elementary school in Columbia, South Carolina where he regularly performs feats of strength for the eager kids who chant his name. From tearing phone books in half, squeezing full soda cans until they explode, and rolling up frying pans like a burrito, Williams’ grip is legendary.
In a not-so-similar way, but related to grip strength, I can very vividly remember the first time that I had my handshake “corrected” for improper grip. I was 12 years old and was exiting the church service at my home church. I was eager to scoot through the line waiting to shake the speaker’s hand to join my friends in the fellow-ship hall. The speaker this Sunday was one of the elders in our congregation and a great family friend. As I hurriedly made my way past him, I half-heartedly stuck out my hand. What I thought would be a brief exchange turned into something much more meaningful. I felt his grip tighten and almost pull me back so that I was face-to-face with him. In a gentle, teaching way, he offered to me this suggestion. “When you shake someone’s hand, let them know that you mean it.” We then proceeded to re-do our handshake exchange with me applying the proper and respectful force, grip, and eye contact. To this day, when-ever I shake someone’s hand I remember this lesson and am thankful for the time taken by this individual to show me something that far outweighed hand strength or grip. We can easily look at these two accounts above and either marvel at the strength of a grip like Rich Williams or laugh at the ignorance shown by an adolescent lad, but what does something like a tight grip have to do with giving? The same question could be asked about how we view the resources that God has given each of us; our time, our energy, our talents, our money. How tight is your grip to those things? Whose are they? Who are they for? One of the ways, that you and I can struggle in this area is in viewing these gifts that God has given us as being meant only for us – our enjoyment, our pleasure. We can be tempted to hoard these gifts, to not use them, to keep them under wraps or for ourselves, but God desires that we see the bigger picture in those things that He gives to us. Scripture’s tone and call on this aspect of giving is simply this: God has given so that we can give. There is a blessing designed and intended for the giver. We obviously see the blessing in receiving, but many of us have also felt that when we give too. So, how tight is your grip on the gifts and resources that God has given you and made you steward and manager of? Who in your life and world could benefit from you sharing those? It is when we loosen our grip and let go that we see God’s provision in our own life and the true life that He intends us to experience. In the Apostle Paul’s first letter to young pastor Timothy, he writes these words: “Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life. (1 Timothy 6:17-19 NIV) May each of us continue to learn and be shaped by God’s grace to us as we give what He first gave to us -Pastor Ben. |
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